Posts Tagged: normalcy

Sex And The Trouble With Normal

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In regards to sex there’s one question I get a LOT. The specifics may vary a great deal from one person to the next but the gist of the query is the same:

Am I normal?

My answer will be different depending on the situation but my general opinion regarding sex, normalcy and whether the description applies to is more or less standard:

Nope. You’re not normal.

As far I as can tell there is no “normal” when it comes to sex. I have yet to learn of a sexual desire, appetite, aversion or practice that is truly universal or truly unique. To put it another way, not everyone is into the same sexual stuff as you. But whatever it is you are (or aren’t) into sexually, you aren’t the only one. So, no I don’t think you’re normal. I don’t think that I’m normal. When it comes to sex, I don’t even know what “normal” means. read more